As the Christmas holidays approach each year, it’s time to turn one’s mind to presents for family and friends. More people are buying on Internet sites but a lot of people prefer to browse round the shops, looking at the decorations and soaking up the festive atmosphere. It can be difficult to choose for everyone and store vouchers are always appreciated if you are really stuck for a Christmas gift idea. There are Christmas catalogues too that offer good quality items at affordable prices and you can select in the comfort of your home, beating the crowds.

Traditional presents for men tend to include aftershave, socks or sporting goods. A more unusual spin can be put on these, such as novelty golf balls or cartoon character socks. There are also boxed sets of wine and cheese or bottles of whisky in presentation cases. Sports lovers will also appreciate a book of the most challenging golf courses or a history of baseball or football.

Toiletries and cosmetics are always a good stand by for the lady in your life. A bottle of perfume, especially if it’s her favorite scent, will not go to waste. Only give chocolates to those ladies who are not dieting. A DVD of a romantic comedy is another good Christmas gift idea. Anything with Hugh Grant or George Clooney is bound to be enjoyed!

Experience gifts have become very popular these days. They may include something that the recipient has wanted to do for a long time, such as going up in a hot air balloon or driving a race car. Adventure packs are popular with people wanting a challenge. There is even one for going down in a cage to observe sharks! For the less adventurous, a day at a health spa would be welcome. Some experiences will spark new hobbies such as falconry, game fishing or clay pigeon shooting. A year’s subscription to someone’s favorite magazine is another worthwhile Christmas gift idea.

Children of course love Christmas and the hard work is worth doing, when seeing the look on their faces when they open their presents on Christmas morning. There are countless toys on the market and the more traditional wooden toys are becoming more popular each year. Educational toys are available, such as chemistry sets and alphabet games for younger children. Story books are favorites too as a Christmas gift idea, especially classic fairy tales and modern authors such as Roald Dahl and J.K Rowling, author of the Harry Potter series.

Planning an adult Valentine’s Day party is a bit of a no-brainer. Invite a lot of couples, have a few drinks, decorate with red. Done, right? Yes, and no. You want to put a little more thought into it than that and it’s good to have some games to keep things lively. If you are inviting several couples, there are many fun activities you can plan.

First, how about the “what’s this item” game? Fill a paper bag with a variety of new undergarments. These should be both men’s and women’s garments and can include anything from a bra to a lace teddy to a jock strap. Each couple feels around in the bag, not on the outside, as this one requires hands on effort. They make a list of what they think is in the bag. You can tell people how many items are in the bag, but that’s it. So you might say, there are 10 items in the bag, what are they? Once all the lists are made, pour the bag’s contents out on a table. Let everyone go through the items and see who has the most number of items right. The winning couple gets, you guessed it, the bag of goodies.

You can create a drinking game at the party that requires you take a drink whenever someone kisses you. The kiss can be from the other gender or the same sex, and anytime anyone kisses you anywhere, you have to take a drink or really get things going, from a shot glass. Create a dartboard with balloons. Cut cardboard into a heart shape and staple red inflated balloons to the dartboard and let people take a shot at breaking a heart. Be sure to have plenty of inflated balloons on hand to replace the ones that get broken.

If your party involves a meal, make it a potluck and make it interesting. Tell everyone that the food they bring must be red. Whatever it is, it must be red. This can create some interesting dishes. Certainly, someone can bring lasagna or someone else can bring red velvet cake. And you’ll always get someone who takes this opportunity to make jello. What about a salad? That must be radicchio. Or someone could bring strawberries for desert. Assign someone the task of bringing the bread and see what happens.

For a little fun event, consider a scavenger hunt where your guests must head out into the neighborhood or on the town for many Valentine’s Day items. Your list might include things like a bag of Hershey’s Kisses, a red heart shaped Mylar balloon, one red rose, a stuffed Cupid or a kid’s Valentine card. You can send the couples out as teams, or pit the men against the women. Be sure to include something that requires photo proof, like “kiss one stranger on the arm” or “give love advice to a complete stranger”.

If your party goers all know each other well, it’s OK to play a simple game of “truth or dare”. You might impose rules on the game, such as all the “truth” questions must originate from the college years, particularly fun if this group of friends met in college or must be about the current spouse. Keep the “dare” challenges clean if you think your group would prefer that or by all means, keep them racy, if that’s fun too.